| You are always responsible for yourself. | | | | self. This is where one findstrue |
| Never should you look for reasons to | | | | happiness and peace. If this were not |
| blame outside of oneself. There are | | | | so, you may be able to purchase lasting |
| people that are forever blaming the | | | | joy. Havingmoney to afford the things |
| outsider for their feelings and actions. | | | | that brings happiness to one self is |
| Veryseldom will you hear one ask, "Why | | | | means a great deal, but this |
| does one have to act or react that way?" | | | | isn'teverything. |
| Only when you are ableto assume full | | | | When you choose happiness over despair, |
| responsibility for whom and what you are | | | | you aren't just generating it , you may |
| will you be able to experience | | | | find it verycontagious. Everyone has a |
| truehappiness and freedom. As long as | | | | need for happiness. When life is |
| one feels comfortable putting the blame | | | | approached with joy one can often |
| on others, they will neverchange their | | | | renderthe all too present pain one may |
| behaviors. | | | | be experiencing. This is no small |
| People have always found someone else to | | | | matter. |
| blame. This began back when one blamed | | | | Often enthusiasm toward your loved one |
| their parents forlack of love. Society | | | | to make them perfect or in an attempt to |
| has often been blamed for keeping | | | | protect them frompain , we devalue them |
| everyone from having true freedom. | | | | as humans. Humans aren't as trusting ; |
| Manyfriends and family members have | | | | tolerant; or thoughtful toward them |
| often been blamed, even life at some | | | | asone may be with a friend. Still, this |
| point has been blamed. As longas one can | | | | is needed in loving another person. |
| pass the blame, one will never | | | | Set aside time to be close and intimate |
| experience what is required in changing | | | | in the mind and body. Quit spending so |
| their lives. Afterall ,who is the | | | | much time in otherslives trying to |
| victim? God has even been blamed. How | | | | affirm and reinforce them. Learn to |
| many times have you heard someone say, | | | | listen to that private person inside of |
| "Idon't know why God had to do this to | | | | oneself. It is interesting how one can |
| me?" God is often blamed in the passing | | | | become so complete when they are lost in |
| of a loved one. No onewants to accept | | | | the lives of another. |
| that it was just his or her time to go. | | | | Even as a child , you often found a |
| Humans have been known to have huge | | | | brother or sister to blame if things |
| egos. | | | | didn't go your way. Now youhave a chance |
| Never do they stop to place blame on | | | | to blame your friends or lovers if |
| themselves. Whether you remain single or | | | | things aren't done to satisfy you. This |
| form a relationship ,you should always | | | | will onlycause you to become isolated. |
| know where to place the blame. No | | | | No one is going to put up with being |
| relationship can survive if one always | | | | blamed all the time. Relax! |
| wants toblame the other partner. | | | | Search your inner being. Would you want |
| Relationships should never be considered | | | | your partner always blaming you? What |
| a dumping ground for one's unselfish | | | | kind of relationshipdo you want? Is |
| ways . Only can youbegin to grow when | | | | always best to treat others as you would |
| you assume the responsibility for your | | | | want them to treat you. Do away |
| own joy and happiness. These things | | | | withplacing blame if you are interesting |
| can'tbe generated from an outside | | | | in having a lasting relationship. |
| source. It has to come from within one | | | | |