| You are always responsible for yourself. | | | | happiness and peace. If this were not so, |
| Never should you look for reasons to blame | | | | you may be able to purchase lasting joy. |
| outside of oneself. There are people that are | | | | Havingmoney to afford the things that brings |
| forever blaming the outsider for their | | | | happiness to one self is means a great deal, |
| feelings and actions. Veryseldom will you | | | | but this isn'teverything. |
| hear one ask, "Why does one have to act or | | | | |
| react that way?" Only when you are ableto | | | | When you choose happiness over despair, you |
| assume full responsibility for whom and what | | | | aren't just generating it , you may find it |
| you are will you be able to experience | | | | verycontagious. Everyone has a need for |
| truehappiness and freedom. As long as one | | | | happiness. When life is approached with joy |
| feels comfortable putting the blame on | | | | one can often renderthe all too present pain |
| others, they will neverchange their | | | | one may be experiencing. This is no small |
| behaviors. | | | | matter. |
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| People have always found someone else to | | | | Often enthusiasm toward your loved one to |
| blame. This began back when one blamed their | | | | make them perfect or in an attempt to protect |
| parents forlack of love. Society has often | | | | them frompain , we devalue them as humans. |
| been blamed for keeping everyone from having | | | | Humans aren't as trusting ; tolerant; or |
| true freedom. Manyfriends and family members | | | | thoughtful toward them asone may be with a |
| have often been blamed, even life at some | | | | friend. Still, this is needed in loving |
| point has been blamed. As longas one can pass | | | | another person. |
| the blame, one will never experience what is | | | | |
| required in changing their lives. Afterall | | | | Set aside time to be close and intimate in |
| ,who is the victim? God has even been blamed. | | | | the mind and body. Quit spending so much time |
| How many times have you heard someone say, | | | | in otherslives trying to affirm and reinforce |
| "Idon't know why God had to do this to me?" | | | | them. Learn to listen to that private person |
| God is often blamed in the passing of a loved | | | | inside of oneself. It is interesting how one |
| one. No onewants to accept that it was just | | | | can become so complete when they are lost in |
| his or her time to go. Humans have been known | | | | the lives of another. |
| to have huge egos. | | | | |
| | | | Even as a child , you often found a brother |
| Never do they stop to place blame on | | | | or sister to blame if things didn't go your |
| themselves. Whether you remain single or form | | | | way. Now youhave a chance to blame your |
| a relationship ,you should always know where | | | | friends or lovers if things aren't done to |
| to place the blame. No relationship can | | | | satisfy you. This will onlycause you to |
| survive if one always wants toblame the other | | | | become isolated. No one is going to put up |
| partner. | | | | with being blamed all the time. Relax! |
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| Relationships should never be considered a | | | | Search your inner being. Would you want your |
| dumping ground for one's unselfish ways . | | | | partner always blaming you? What kind of |
| Only can youbegin to grow when you assume the | | | | relationshipdo you want? Is always best to |
| responsibility for your own joy and | | | | treat others as you would want them to treat |
| happiness. These things can'tbe generated | | | | you. Do away withplacing blame if you are |
| from an outside source. It has to come from | | | | interesting in having a lasting relationship. |
| within one self. This is where one findstrue | | | | |