| You are always responsible for yourself. Never | | | | is where one findstrue happiness and peace. If |
| should you look for reasons to blame outside of | | | | this were not so, you may be able to purchase |
| oneself. There are people that are forever | | | | lasting joy. Havingmoney to afford the things that |
| blaming the outsider for their feelings and actions. | | | | brings happiness to one self is means a great deal, |
| Veryseldom will you hear one ask, "Why does | | | | but this isn'teverything. |
| one have to act or react that way?" Only when | | | | When you choose happiness over despair, you |
| you are ableto assume full responsibility for whom | | | | aren't just generating it , you may find it |
| and what you are will you be able to experience | | | | verycontagious. Everyone has a need for |
| truehappiness and freedom. As long as one feels | | | | happiness. When life is approached with joy one |
| comfortable putting the blame on others, they will | | | | can often renderthe all too present pain one may |
| neverchange their behaviors. | | | | be experiencing. This is no small matter. |
| People have always found someone else to blame. | | | | Often enthusiasm toward your loved one to |
| This began back when one blamed their parents | | | | make them perfect or in an attempt to protect |
| forlack of love. Society has often been blamed | | | | them frompain , we devalue them as humans. |
| for keeping everyone from having true freedom. | | | | Humans aren't as trusting ; tolerant; or thoughtful |
| Manyfriends and family members have often | | | | toward them asone may be with a friend. Still, |
| been blamed, even life at some point has been | | | | this is needed in loving another person. |
| blamed. As longas one can pass the blame, one | | | | Set aside time to be close and intimate in the |
| will never experience what is required in changing | | | | mind and body. Quit spending so much time in |
| their lives. Afterall ,who is the victim? God has | | | | otherslives trying to affirm and reinforce them. |
| even been blamed. How many times have you | | | | Learn to listen to that private person inside of |
| heard someone say, "Idon't know why God had | | | | oneself. It is interesting how one can become so |
| to do this to me?" God is often blamed in the | | | | complete when they are lost in the lives of |
| passing of a loved one. No onewants to accept | | | | another. |
| that it was just his or her time to go. Humans | | | | Even as a child , you often found a brother or |
| have been known to have huge egos. | | | | sister to blame if things didn't go your way. Now |
| Never do they stop to place blame on | | | | youhave a chance to blame your friends or lovers |
| themselves. Whether you remain single or form a | | | | if things aren't done to satisfy you. This will |
| relationship ,you should always know where to | | | | onlycause you to become isolated. No one is going |
| place the blame. No relationship can survive if one | | | | to put up with being blamed all the time. Relax! |
| always wants toblame the other partner. | | | | Search your inner being. Would you want your |
| Relationships should never be considered a | | | | partner always blaming you? What kind of |
| dumping ground for one's unselfish ways . Only | | | | relationshipdo you want? Is always best to treat |
| can youbegin to grow when you assume the | | | | others as you would want them to treat you. Do |
| responsibility for your own joy and happiness. | | | | away withplacing blame if you are interesting in |
| These things can'tbe generated from an outside | | | | having a lasting relationship. |
| source. It has to come from within one self. This | | | | |