Creatively Speaking

Recently a friend was talking to me about herseem to be the last one hanging around admiring
first experience in a store where you can paintall the small, finite details, wanting to know all
your own pottery. She was excited and animatedabout it? Look at those areas first.
while talking about this experience, and explainedInvest in yourself. Take a class, get a book or
how she wanted to be there everyday duringfind a possible mentor. Put into action a
lunch to paint. That she could just live in thatcommitment to learn. Each one who has
store and paint all day. I understand that passionmastered a skill goes through a learning process
and loved seeing it in her.and starts at step one. Start. Put away the
Then she said something that I nearly fell off myexcuses and fears. It doesn't have to be perfect;
chair. "I've never done anything like this before inyou don't even need to show it to others if you
my life, I'm one of those people who have nodon't want to. Give yourself permission to fail, but
talent, or an artistic bone in my body." I asked hergive it enough time and dedication to see if it's
if she really truly believed that, and she indicatedsomething that fits you or not. If it doesn't, move
that she did honestly feel that way.on to try something else, but keep looking until
I do not believe that about any person. I believeyou find that fit.
especially in people who haven't found their "niche"Don't be terribly surprised if doing this however,
yet, that there is a wealth of hidden,brings up issues in your life. I've found in mine that
undiscovered talent, which just hasn't been foundto be true. I'm not sure if it's because it's working
yet. I love meeting people like this because toanother part of your brain and taps into that
me, I sense a treasure hunt.creative side or what. But I've found that to push
I have found in my life that the seasons wherethrough those feelings, to talk to a good friend or
I'm not doing something creative, there wassafe person about those feelings. In the last few
something vital missing. That I'm off balanceyears I've taken up candlemaking, and I had
somewhat. I've been that way since I was a child.made candles as a child as well, so it was a return
I believe people are born with a need to expressfor me to an art form I long ago loved doing. I
their creativity. The obstacles to blockedwas very surprised at some major issues to
creativity are finding what that medium should be,come to the surface in my life, things far too
and probably also defining some goals, andpersonal to go into here, but they were so major
perhaps some defined reasons they are blocked.that I nearly quit; despite that it was something I
Expand your thinking and definition of whatloved doing and had invested heavily in. I cried for
creativity is. It isn't only a person who can draw2 weeks. After grieving an ugly truth I had long
or paint or write. Most didn't just take it up andago pushed down and ignored in my spirit, I
were good at it at their first attempt. It was arealized that ugly thing had robbed me too much
natural talent, but it needed developed. Theyin my life already, and it was time for it's power
learned and practiced to become good at whatover me to stop. Through the pain, I chose to
they do. Just about anything and any medium canmake it a business and it came forth with the
be created into art. Gardening can be an art formname: Joyful Designs in Soy. I gained some real
for instance. I've seen some gardens that trulypersonal freedom through that process which I
were a work of art and almost breath taking. I'veam deeply grateful for, and my business name is
seen junk turned into art, there's jewelry making,a declaration of a new truth in my life. I also carry
basket weaving, knitting, spinning your own yarn,a new joy that I didn't have before, into the rest
photography, too much to list. Start thinking big.of my life.
Where does your interest lie? Take some time toOur creative side isn't just about what we're
really think about that. What are some areasdoing, it's also about who we are, and that
you've told yourself, "someday I'd like to learntouches people near us. Just like tossing a stone
that." What are some areas that you've seeninto a pond, those ripples it creates, flow out and
others do that you find totally amazing and youaffects others.