| How Do You Say " I Love You"? | | | | more than what you allow your ears to hear. |
| | | | Words are wonderful, and shouldn't be taken |
| Why is it so hard to say those three magical | | | | likely. Words of love stand for things. Love |
| words ,(I Love You)? | | | | is an affection shown toward another. It may |
| | | | be towards a parent, child, or lover. For |
| With all the lines of communication it seems | | | | each word that a human speaks , there is an |
| that engaging in any other topic such as hate | | | | emotion attached to it. |
| talk; joy talk; peace and pain talk are | | | | |
| easily . Let the topic of saying I Love You | | | | Often you may find yourself being talked too, |
| come into the picture and a different tune | | | | by a smile or even a handshake. Hugs and |
| begins to play. Why is this? | | | | laughter are other forms of communication. |
| | | | Some of these gestures may speak louder than |
| Even as a child , you were often told I Love | | | | the actual words. You can tell a great deal |
| You by your parents. When you got hurt mama | | | | about a person with just a simple handshake. |
| would kiss you and say , "I Love You" and | | | | A hug has been known to send off mixed |
| that boo-boo would feel so much better. You | | | | signals . A glance can suggest a variety of |
| were always advised to talk about the joy , | | | | things. Still, people don't respect the power |
| fears and hurts in your life. To this very | | | | of wordless messages. Maybe the message of "I |
| day it is still very difficult to say this | | | | Love You" was given by one of the above |
| positive statement. "I Love You." | | | | gestures. Some people find it very hard to |
| | | | voice these three simple words. |
| Everyone that is human has a degree of | | | | |
| language . You may be confused about how you | | | | It is essential that humans know how to |
| learned it . As a baby you learned a language | | | | communicate when they are using certain |
| , not taught by your parents. You had to take | | | | words. People need to control their words. |
| steps in learning this. First , you babbled; | | | | With each word comes a definition and |
| then you began to say words; and lastly you | | | | feeling. This is only when one can take |
| put the words together and made a sentence. | | | | control of their lives. The words people use |
| All this was done on your own as a child. | | | | in a real sense can determine the action and |
| Children are fast at catching on to words and | | | | belief of others. Use these words generously |
| the proper way to use them. Why is it so hard | | | | rather than be narrowed by them. |
| for adults? | | | | Misunderstanding begins to cause problems in |
| | | | a relationship when words aren't used |
| As an adult , you either hear the language of | | | | properly. |
| love or you don't. Sometimes when you are | | | | |
| awaken from a dream, and it was one where | | | | Unless you like talking to yourself , take |
| lovers looked into each others eyes, a simple | | | | some advice and remember it takes two to |
| harmony falls over you and you experience the | | | | carry on a conversation. This truly means |
| urge to tell your partner you love them. | | | | that if your partner is speaking , you better |
| Wouldn't it be wonderful to have such an open | | | | be listening. The majority of the time , by |
| line of communication all the time? It would | | | | the time someone has said what they wanted to |
| be very nourishing and rewarding in a healthy | | | | say the other party has forgot half of it. |
| relationship. | | | | They are only prepared to hear what they want |
| | | | too. So the next time you want to say "I Love |
| Once you have an open line of communication, | | | | You" make sure you are using the proper words |
| have you thought of how you will keep it | | | | or let the wordless message be shown by the |
| open? It is very true that communication is | | | | gestures you have waited so long to express. |