| How Do You Say " I Love You"? | | | | love stand for things. Love is an affection shown |
| Why is it so hard to say those three magical | | | | toward another. It may be towards a parent, |
| words ,(I Love You)? | | | | child, or lover. For each word that a human |
| With all the lines of communication it seems that | | | | speaks , there is an emotion attached to it. |
| engaging in any other topic such as hate talk; joy | | | | Often you may find yourself being talked too, by |
| talk; peace and pain talk are easily . Let the topic | | | | a smile or even a handshake. Hugs and laughter |
| of saying I Love You come into the picture and a | | | | are other forms of communication. Some of |
| different tune begins to play. Why is this? | | | | these gestures may speak louder than the actual |
| Even as a child , you were often told I Love You | | | | words. You can tell a great deal about a person |
| by your parents. When you got hurt mama would | | | | with just a simple handshake. A hug has been |
| kiss you and say , "I Love You" and that boo-boo | | | | known to send off mixed signals . A glance can |
| would feel so much better. You were always | | | | suggest a variety of things. Still, people don't |
| advised to talk about the joy , fears and hurts in | | | | respect the power of wordless messages. Maybe |
| your life. To this very day it is still very difficult to | | | | the message of "I Love You" was given by one |
| say this positive statement. "I Love You." | | | | of the above gestures. Some people find it very |
| Everyone that is human has a degree of language | | | | hard to voice these three simple words. |
| . You may be confused about how you learned it . | | | | It is essential that humans know how to |
| As a baby you learned a language , not taught by | | | | communicate when they are using certain words. |
| your parents. You had to take steps in learning | | | | People need to control their words. With each |
| this. First , you babbled; then you began to say | | | | word comes a definition and feeling. This is only |
| words; and lastly you put the words together and | | | | when one can take control of their lives. The |
| made a sentence. All this was done on your own | | | | words people use in a real sense can determine |
| as a child. Children are fast at catching on to | | | | the action and belief of others. Use these words |
| words and the proper way to use them. Why is it | | | | generously rather than be narrowed by them. |
| so hard for adults? | | | | Misunderstanding begins to cause problems in a |
| As an adult , you either hear the language of love | | | | relationship when words aren't used properly. |
| or you don't. Sometimes when you are awaken | | | | Unless you like talking to yourself , take some |
| from a dream, and it was one where lovers | | | | advice and remember it takes two to carry on a |
| looked into each others eyes, a simple harmony | | | | conversation. This truly means that if your |
| falls over you and you experience the urge to tell | | | | partner is speaking , you better be listening. The |
| your partner you love them. Wouldn't it be | | | | majority of the time , by the time someone has |
| wonderful to have such an open line of | | | | said what they wanted to say the other party |
| communication all the time? It would be very | | | | has forgot half of it. They are only prepared to |
| nourishing and rewarding in a healthy relationship. | | | | hear what they want too. So the next time you |
| Once you have an open line of communication, | | | | want to say "I Love You" make sure you are |
| have you thought of how you will keep it open? | | | | using the proper words or let the wordless |
| It is very true that communication is more than | | | | message be shown by the gestures you have |
| what you allow your ears to hear. Words are | | | | waited so long to express. |
| wonderful, and shouldn't be taken likely. Words of | | | | |