| Then the duty of the man is towards his brothers | | | | done his duty. And to his friends and relatives he |
| and sisters, and towards the children of his | | | | must be as gentle as a lamb. It is the duty of the |
| brothers and sisters, if they are poor, and | | | | householder not to pay reverence to the wicked; |
| towards his other relatives, his friends and his | | | | because, if he reverences the wicked people of |
| servants. Then his duties are towards the people | | | | the world, he patronises wickedness; and it will be |
| of the same village, and the poor, and any one | | | | a great mistake if he disregards those who are |
| that comes to him for help. Having sufficient | | | | worthy of respect, the good people. He must not |
| means, if the householder does not take care to | | | | be gushing in his friendship; he must not go out of |
| give to his relatives and to the poor, know him to | | | | the way making friends everywhere; he must |
| be only a brute; his is not a human being. | | | | watch the actions of the men he wants to make |
| Excessive attachment to food, clothes, and the | | | | friends with, and their dealings with other men, |
| tending of the body, and dressing of the hair | | | | reason upon them, and then make friends. These |
| should be avoided. The householder must be pure | | | | three things he must not talk of. He must not talk |
| in heart and clean in body, always active and | | | | in public of his own fame; he must not preach his |
| always ready for work. To his enemies the | | | | own name or his own powers; he must not talk |
| householder must be a hero. Them he must | | | | of his wealth, or of anything that has been told to |
| resist. That is the duty of the householder. He | | | | him privately. To read the rest of the story visit |
| must not sit down in a corner and weep, and talk | | | | Swami Vivekananda was a prolific speaker, a life |
| nonsense about non - resistance. If he does not | | | | changing catalyst and a real master of spirituality. |
| show himself a hero to his enemies he has not | | | | |